How to Forgive the Unforgivable - part two
Is there any offense that can be considered unforgivable? This is part two in a discussion on the depths of forgiveness that God calls us to offer to those who have offended us.
how to forgive the Unforgivable
Is it truly possible to forgive everything that has been done to us? Are there actions or experiences that remain unforgivable, no matter the circumstances? This post delves into these challenging questions and examines the deeper, often complex levels of forgiveness.
How to Forgive: Forgiveness is a Choice
Forgiveness is something that many people often talk about but fail to truly put into practice. This is because it requires intentional effort and emotional work on our part. However, the process begins with one simple but powerful step: making a conscious choice. The question is, will you choose to forgive?
How to Forgive: See the Silver Lining
This post is part of a series that explores the practical and meaningful aspects of how to forgive. In particular, this post focuses on what it truly means to reframe your experience in a way that allows you to recognize and appreciate the silver lining within the challenges or difficulties that may have happened to you.
How to Forgive: Remember There is a Nazi in You
This is part three of a four part series on learning how to forgive. In this post I look at the need to reframe the offense that happened to you. It’s important to realize that you are capable of doing the very thing that was done to you.
How to Forgive: Setting Four Levels of Boundaries
Setting boundaries in a relationship is truly an art that requires thoughtful reflection and clear communication. This post explores four important types of boundaries you should consider based on the specific nature of the relationship you are involved in. Establishing good boundaries not only protects your well-being but also creates the space needed to genuinely forgive those who have wronged you.
How To Forgive: Set Boundaries
It’s hard to forgive if someone keeps offending you. Setting boundaries in your relationships will enable you to create space and be able to forgive. This is part two in a series helping you to forgive people in your life.
How to Forgive: Be the Hero
There is no formula for forgiveness but there is a process. If you are struggling to forgive someone, this four part series will help you to understand this process. It starts with being the Hero by making good choices.
How Do I Forgive My Ex?
Forgiving your ex can be a powerful experience that leads to freedom from your past. This post offers the story of one woman who was able to forgive her ex. The post is the beginning of a four part series that will help you to learn the process of forgiveness as well.
The Gift of Pain - Helping Others from Our Hurt
God comforts us in our pain because he loves us. But there is another reason for his comfort. God comforts us in our pain so we can comfort other people who are hurting.
What Does the Bible Say About Shame?
What does the Bible say about shame? The Bible can be read through a shame grid, showing not only how shame entered the world but also how God patiently heals and restores those who carry it. Discover more about the Bible’s teaching on shame and how God intends to reverse shame’s power in the lives of his people.
Brene Brown on Telling Your Story
Brene Brown talks about how telling our story to others creates connection. So I invited our staff on a retreat to tell their stories to one another. Who needs to hear your story?
Forrest Gump, Lt. Dan and the pain of shame
The pain of shame is often associated with failures. Losers. The inadequate. But shame is often rooted in the psyche of the successful purpose. This post looks at the source of the shame that lived deep within Lt. Dan in the movie, Forrest Gump.
The Spiritual Implications of Brene Brown's TED Talk on Vulnerability
Brené Brown’s teaching on shame, vulnerability, and connection carries important spiritual implications as well. Explore three of those meaningful implications in this short, thoughtful post.
The Difference Between Shame and Guilt
People often confuse shame and guilt, yet they are not the same emotion. This short post briefly explores the key differences between them.
Overcoming The Pain of Your Past
Your past pain doesn’t have to define the course of your future. You absolutely CAN change and grow beyond what you have experienced. Don’t allow your shame or past wounds to control your present or hold you back. Discover three practical ways to help get your life moving forward and unstuck.
Forgiveness: Moving Beyond the Hurt
People often hold onto their anger and unforgiveness because they believe it protects them from further harm or pain. However, in reality, this emotional burden acts like a prison, keeping them trapped and preventing true healing. Choosing forgiveness does not mean forgetting or excusing what happened; instead, it offers a path to freedom and inner peace. Discover why embracing forgiveness can liberate your heart and explore valuable resources to help you move beyond anger and toward restoration.
Are You Worthless or Just Flawed? by F. Remy Diederich
When you fail, it’s easy to think you’re worthless and give up or hurt yourself. This comes from feeling shame. But there’s a better way to see failure and find healing. Learn how to take back the life you were meant to live.
Defining the Pain of Shame
Shame is deeply painful and can leave you feeling profoundly defective, as if you don’t belong and are inherently unworthy of love or acceptance. This emotional burden weighs heavily on your sense of self and your relationships. This article provides a thoughtful solution to help alleviate the pain of shame and offers valuable resources for those who want to understand this struggle more fully.
Parenting without Shame is Possible
Hurt people, hurt people. And shamed people, shame people… especially their children. But it’s possible to parent without shame. The first step in shame free parenting is to identify your own shame.