Brene Brown on Telling Your Story
brene brown on telling your story
…telling your story is what creates connection
Telling your story. That's the goal. I'm hanging out with my staff (from Cedarbrook Church) for 30 hours at a retreat center right now. The sole purpose of our retreat is telling our stories to each other.
It dawned on me a while back that we know very little about each other beyond our daily office interaction. But how can we fully appreciate where each person is coming from without more knowledge of one another?
If we gain a bigger context for each person we'll understand where they are coming from in day-to-day interactions. And that has to help us value each other, communicate better and create a greater sense of team.
Brene Brown and Telling Your Story
We started our day by watching Brene Brown's TED talk about the power of vulnerability. Then we piled in our van and headed north to about the remotest part of Wisconsin we could find. They tell me we are nine miles from Minong, WI.
Minong. Doesn't that look like a word with a few typos? Anyway...it's remote.
We are staying at the Heartwood Conference and Retreat Center. It's a great setting to unplug and hang out with each other.
With a staff of nine we have already heard five stories today with four to go tomorrow. It's a powerful time. Each person takes 30-60 minutes to tell how they got from birth to present day. We can ask anything we want but they don't have to share more than they are comfortable sharing.
It's amazing what we heard today already. I never would have guessed what I heard. It's opened a whole new world of understanding for each person. I can't believe we haven't done this before.
Telling Your Story Creates Connection
I've been on a Brene Brown kick lately after seeing her videos last week. I downloaded her book called The Gifts of Imperfection and got half way through it last night.
Brown notes that telling your story takes courage but when you take the risk it opens you up for people to move toward you with compassion and empathy. When that happens you connect.
Connection is what you were made for. Connection is the source of joy and love.
I can see connection happening here already after just a few stories. I'm excited for the impact this time of story telling will have on our staff.
I think it will overflow to our entire church. But it also makes me think of all the stories that go untold. When our stories aren't told then people don't move toward us and connections aren't made. That's a sad thing.
God didn't make us to live in isolation but to connect. Story makes that happen.
Questions: Have you experienced connection from story telling? Who needs to hear your story? Whose story do you need to hear?
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