Church Abuse: Why "Matthew 18" May Not Apply to Confronting Pastors
Abusive church leaders misuse Matthew 18 to silence victims. Learn why it may not apply to pastors and what you can do instead.
Tackling Church Wounds with Christy Boulware
This is my second post with some of the questions and answers from when I was interviewed by Christy Boulware for her podcast. We looked at spiritual abuse and women in ministry.
Spiritual Abuse in Latin America, Abuso Espiritual en America Latina
Here is a spanish translation from a chapter of the book, Broken Trust, in regard to spiritual abuse.
Left Behind: letting go of your friends from an abusive church
When you leave a spiritually abusive church or organization, you are leaving behind friends as well. How do you handle that?
Abusive Pastors, Understanding Why They Do What They
It seems to be a mystery why a pastor would ever abuse a member of their congregation. But abusive pastors exist throughout the church. This post discusses the reason why some pastors might be abusive and what you can do about it.
Spiritual Abuse and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
PTSD is a common result of spiritual abuse. Take your abuse seriously and get the help you need.
Five Things I Learned from Spiritual Abuse Survivors
Survivors of spiritual abuse are often misunderstood and mistreated. The book, Broken Trust, was written with this in mind and incorporated the input of many survivors.
Best Books on Spiritual Abuse: Broken Trust Tops the List
The book, “Broken Trust” by F. Remy Diederich was ranked as the best book on spiritual abuse by one expert.
Survivors of Spiritual Abuse: Five Ways to Offer Your Support
Survivors of spiritual abuse are so often misunderstood and mistreated. This post will give you practical advice on how to treat survivors of spiritual abuse.
Spiritual Abuse: the Fruit of Toxic Faith
Toxic faith and spiritual abuse are related but distinct. Spiritual abuse grows out of wrong thinking about God by both the abuse and the abused.
I Left My Toxic Church...Now What?
After being abused spiritually, some people give up on church. Others dive right back into church. Before you return to church there are a few things to consider.
How to Reclaim Your Church from Spiritual Abuse
You are a leader in your church and spiritual abuse has just been exposed. What do you do? How do you “clean house” and get your church back on track? This post offers you a guide for the process.
Don't Minimize Spiritual Abuse
It’s hard to admit to abuse. It’s tempting to minimize it. But when a church or pastor is found to be spiritually abusive it needs to be exposed. Don’t minimize spiritual abuse.
How to Recover From Spiritual Abuse, by F. Remy Diederich
When you’ve experienced spiritual abuse, it can be so devastating you may not feel like you will ever recover. But God is faithful. He can renew your spirit if you give him the opportunity. This post will give you some direction to let that happen.
Spiritual Abuse Checklist, by F. Remy Diederich
Sometimes a checklist is necessary to confirm what we think is true. Here is a spiritual abuse checklist to help you determine if you are in a spiritually abusive church or organization.
What is Spiritual Abuse?
You hear about spiritual abuse, church abuse, and religious abuse more and more in the news. But what is spiritual abuse? Learn what spiritual abuse is here.
How to Confront a Toxic Pastor in a Toxic Church
The church is supposed to be a blessing to the world. A pastor should be the greatest champion of grace and truth. There is nothing more perverse and distorted than a toxic pastor. Learn how to confront an abusive pastor.
What Causes Shame?
What causes shame? In this post F. Remy Diederich looks at the roots of shame and shows a way to overcome it.