Ten Reasons Bad Things Might Keep Happening To You
Why do bad things keep happening to you? Is God against you? Is it your fate? Do you somehow invite bad things into your life? These ten reasons might help you to turn things around in your life.
Does Your Church Demand Obedience or Empower Growth?
Too often church pastors want to control the thoughts and behaviors of their church members. This undermines God’s desire to develop a relationship with people individually. The Bible tells us that we are meant to make our own choices.
Church Abuse Recovery... a basic roadmap for overcoming loss
When you’ve experienced church abuse, or any significant loss, it’s easy to get stuck in a form of exile where you feel lost and disoriented. This post offers a brief roadmap to help people find the path to recovery.
Defining Forgiveness - Three Things That Forgiveness Is
People often fail to forgive because they don’t understand what forgiveness is. This brief article defines forgiveness in simple terms.
Finding Purpose by Serving Others
If you are looking to find your purpose in life, it may not be in a career or even a ministry. The Bible gives us a good indication of our purpose by listening to an ancient prophet.
Identity and Purpose: aligning your behavior to your identity in Christ
Too often the behavior of Christians doesn’t line up with their claim to be God’s child, earning the name: hypocrite. This post looks at the need to align your behavior with your identity as God’s child and follower of Jesus.
Church Abuse: Why "Matthew 18" May Not Apply to Confronting Pastors
Abusive church leaders misuse Matthew 18 to silence victims. Learn why it may not apply to pastors and what you can do instead.
How to Overcome Fear with Faith: Part Two
When Jesus was arrested, his disciples reacted in fear. Maybe you can relate. Fear turns us into control freaks and robs us of our future.
How to Overcome Fear with Faith
When Jesus was arrested, his followers were gripped by fear. This post helps to better understand the effect that fear has on us and how to overcome it.
The Weakness of God: An Advent Meditation
Advent…the season when we reflect on God entering the world through a baby, reveals a side of God that we might not expect. How might the “weakness” of God encourage you this Christmas?
Could Poverty Help us Forgive? Henri Nouwen
Henri Nouwen takes a radical look at both hospitality and forgiveness. If you have nothing, you are free to give and forgive everything. A reflection from his book, Show Me The Way.
Guilt That Leads You Away From God: Henri Nouwen
There are two kinds of guilt: one that leads you to God and one that leads you away. Henri Nouwen takes a look at a guilt that leads you away from God. A reflection on his book, Show Me The Way.
Overcoming Temptation: Learning from Jesus' Triumph in Matthew 4
Discover powerful insights on overcoming temptation from the story of Jesus' victory in Matthew 4. Learn how to find strength through God's word and resist temptations in your weakest moments.
Ten Reasons Why People Fail to Leave a Toxic Church
Many people suffer from spiritual abuse in toxic churches. But they often struggle to leave. Why is that? Here are ten reasons why people fail to leave a toxic church.
Depression and Perfectionism
Striving to always be your best can get the best of you. Perfectionism can lead to depression. But understanding God’s acceptance might relieve you of this burden.
Sabbath Is God's Answer For Our Shame
There is an inverse connection between shame and Sabbath, or the ability to rest. Shame causes us to strive for acceptance and never enter the rest that God has for us. But when you stop to rest, you might hear God’s voice of love.
How to Pray (3): What to Ask For in Prayer
This is the final post in the brief series on How To Pray, looking at Jesus’ teaching on prayer in the Sermon on the Mount. In this post I look at three things Jesus said we can ask for in prayer.
How To Pray (2): Approaching God
This is part two in a short series on How To Pray. In this post I look at what our view of God should be before we even ask for anything from Him.
How To Pray: For Beginners Only
Too many people fail to pray because they think it’s complicated. It’s not. If you can talk to a friend, you can talk to God. This post begins a brief series on How to Pray.
Why Am I So Easily Offended? Wisdom from Henri Nouwen
Some people are easily offended. Maybe that’s you. Henri Nouwen speaks to this condition and points to a better way.