Loving Jesus, Leaving Church... How to Grow Your Faith Without Going to Church
If you’ve been disillusioned by church, hurt by it, or just plain bored by it, you’ve likely wondered: "Can I be a Christian without going to church?" Discover the biblical and emotional reality of faith outside the traditional model, and how to stay spiritually healthy when you're "between churches" or gone for good.
Can You Be A Good Christian And Not Attend Church?
Feeling guilty for skipping Sunday service in light of Hebrews 10:25? Explore what it truly means to be a "good Christian" when the traditional church model no longer feels like home. Find healing from church hurt and discover a faith that isn't defined by a building.
How to find a healthy church
After experiencing church hurt or trauma, finding a new community feels risky. Use this practical "Healthy Church Checklist" to evaluate leadership, accountability, and tone so you can find a safe place to heal and grow without the fear of being burned again.
How To Recover From A Church Split
Recovering from a church split is a journey through grief and spiritual trauma. Learn how to prioritize relationships over rules and find God’s purpose in the pain of a divided congregation.
Church Abuse Recovery... a basic roadmap for overcoming loss
When you’ve experienced church abuse, or any significant loss, it’s easy to get stuck in a form of exile where you feel lost and disoriented. This post offers a brief roadmap to help people find the path to recovery.
Deconstructing Your Faith: Review of "Invisible Jesus"
In Scot McKnight’s latest book, Invisible Jesus, he looks at the recent Deconstruction movement and helps people to navigate this journey. Find out his main points and if this books is worth your read.
Why "Matthew 18" May Not Apply to Confronting Pastors
Abusive church leaders misuse Matthew 18 to silence their victims. Learn why it may not apply to pastors and what you can do instead.
Set Boundaries to Prevent Spiritual Abuse
People can easily find themselves caught in the web of a spiritually abusive church. How does that happen? And how can you prevent that from happening again? This post offers practical steps that you can take to protect yourself by setting boundaries.
Ten Reasons Why People Fail to Leave a Toxic Church
Many people suffer from spiritual abuse in toxic churches. But they often struggle to leave. Why is that? Here are ten reasons why people fail to leave a toxic church.
When GOSSIP Becomes A Spiritually Weaponized Accusation
Spiritually toxic leaders often weaponize the accusation of gossip to shut down complaints. But what does the Bible say about gossip? Accusing someone of gossip is often a tactic of spiritual abuse.
Obedience Is A Trigger Word
The word, “obedience” triggers an adverse reaction for many reasons, one of them being the thought of spiritual abuse. But could it be that obedience to Jesus should trigger joy?
Abusive Pastors, Understanding Why They Do What They
It seems to be a mystery why a pastor would ever abuse a member of their congregation. But abusive pastors exist throughout the church. This post discusses the reason why some pastors might be abusive and what you can do about it.
Toxic Pastors and Why They Are Not Confronted
If toxic pastors are so harmful, why are they so rarely confronted? Here are ten common reasons people avoid confronting an abusive pastor — read through them and see which ones resonate with your experience.
I Left My Toxic Church...Now What?
After experiencing spiritual abuse, some people decide to give up on church altogether, while others quickly throw themselves into searching for a new congregation. Before you step back into church life, there are a few important things to consider to protect your healing and ensure a healthier, safer spiritual environment.
How to Confront a Toxic Pastor in a Toxic Church
The church is supposed to be a blessing to the world. A pastor should be the greatest champion of grace and truth. There is nothing more perverse and distorted than a toxic pastor. Learn how to confront an abusive pastor.