Why Can't I Forgive? - the secret to forgiveness
Forgiveness is hard, leading people to ask: Why can’t I forgive? There are reasons for that. And there is a simple shift in thinking that can help you to forgive.
The Anger of Personal Tragedy - Day 15
This post continues the series looking at how to overcome a setback. Today we look at the anger that comes from experiencing a tragic event.
Anger and Secondary Losses - Day 12
Many people get stuck in anger because they are unaware of the secondary losses associated with their anger. This post explores secondary losses.
Can you forgive and still feel anger?
Many people struggle with feelings of anger even after they believe they have forgiven their offender. Can anger and forgiveness coexist? This article takes a look at this important question.
How to apologize well - part one: admit
An authentic apology requires four parts but most people fail at all four. In this post in a series I look at the need to fully admit what you did.
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Is it possible to forgive everything? Is anything unforgivable? This post explores the question.
How to Forgive: Forgiveness is a Choice
Forgiveness is something that many people talk about but fail to do. And that’s because it requires work on our part. But it starts by making a choice.
How to Forgive: Setting Four Levels of Boundaries
Setting boundaries in a relationship is an art. This post discusses four types of boundaries to have based on the relationship you are in. Good boundaries enable you to forgive your offenders.
How To Forgive: Set Boundaries
It’s hard to forgive is someone keeps offending you. Setting boundaries in your relationships will enable you to create space and be able to forgive.
Raw Shame; Ten More Ways We Manifest the Pain of Shame
Shame is a powerful emotion that impacts us in many ways. What are some of the ways that shame manifests. Here are ten ways.
The Anger Behind the Anger
A personal experience with my children helped me to learn something about anger. There are primary and secondary losses that cause our anger. Understanding them is the key to overcoming your anger.