Generosity and Jesus: Where's Your Heart?
In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus showed people how to be salt and light in the world. One way is to be generous with your money.
Deep Hurt, Deep Healing: You Are Perfect In Christ
This is the final post in a four-part series focused on how to find deep healing from a significant and profound hurt. The concluding steps involve embracing your new identity in God and welcoming His Spirit fully into your life. Additionally, you will find a list of helpful resources to support you on your healing journey.
Deep Hurt, Deep Healing: Finding a New Identity in Christ
This is part three in a four-part series on Deep Hurt, Deep Healing, focusing on how to overcome the persistent pain of shame. In this post, F. Remy Diederich explores how God’s boundless love and unconditional forgiveness serve as the essential starting point for the deep healing process. By embracing these truths, you can begin to reclaim your life fully and move forward towards lasting restoration and peace.
Deep Hurt, Deep Healing: The Look of Shame
How does shame impact your life on a deeper level? What are the specific emotions and thoughts that it stirs up within you? This post offers a brief recap of some important insights from Brené Brown about what shame truly feels like and explores the many misguided ways we often attempt to cope with or manage it.
Deep Hurt, Deep Healing: What is Shame
If you have been deeply hurt, have you found deep healing? Our hurt is often rooted in the pain of shame. But what is shame and where did it come from? Why to we suffer from it? This post will explore these questions.
Bad Religion and the Resurrection of Jesus, by F. Remy Diederich
So much of what is called Christianity today poorly represents Jesus. It’s just bad religion. Jesus didn’t come to give us more of the same. He came to exchange something new for the old… something alive and life-changing. His resurrection was proof that his way will last.
Tragedy and Loss: Facing the Questions That Haunt You
There are natural questions that haunt us after the loss of a loved one or another tragedy. But be careful what you believe in these moments. It’s important to not try to have all the answers.
God's Love Doesn't Negate the Possibility of Suffering
In our broken world we live in a tension between God’s love and suffering. How do we reconcile the two? Jesus’ life gives us some understanding.
Marital Meltdowns: How to Divorce Proof Your Marriage
What are the secrets to a successful marriage. This post outlines some of the lessons my wife and I learned in over 40 years of marriage as well as how to divorce-proof your marriage.
Choosing to Not Give Up On Church or God
There are a lot of reasons to give up on church. The church has failed many people in many ways. But the church is the hope of the world if you engage in it.
Left Behind: letting go of your friends from an abusive church
When you leave a spiritually abusive church or organization, you are leaving behind friends as well. How do you handle that?
Why Can't I Forgive? - the secret to forgiveness
Forgiveness is hard, leading people to ask: Why can’t I forgive? There are reasons for that. And there is a simple shift in thinking that can help you to forgive.
Abusive Pastors, Understanding Why They Do What They
It seems to be a mystery why a pastor would ever abuse a member of their congregation. But abusive pastors exist throughout the church. This post discusses the reason why some pastors might be abusive and what you can do about it.
Spiritual Abuse and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
PTSD is a common result of spiritual abuse. Take your abuse seriously and get the help you need.
Five Things I Learned from Spiritual Abuse Survivors
Survivors of spiritual abuse are often misunderstood and mistreated. The book, Broken Trust, was written with this in mind and incorporated the input of many survivors.
Reflections on Francis Chan and We Are Church
Francis Chan left his mega church to start We Are Church. Will it succeed? Here are some reflections on the house church movement.
Best Books on Spiritual Abuse: Broken Trust Tops the List
The book, “Broken Trust” by F. Remy Diederich was ranked as the best book on spiritual abuse by one expert.
Survivors of Spiritual Abuse: Five Ways to Offer Your Support
Survivors of spiritual abuse are so often misunderstood and mistreated. This post will give you practical advice on how to treat survivors of spiritual abuse.
Forgiven by God: How Guilt Can Block God's Forgiveness
When your life gets out of control and filled with guilt and regret, you may think that there is no way to God’s forgiveness. But there is hope. You can start over.
God's Forgiveness Makes You Perfect in His Eyes
Your sin and failure can seem so overwhelming that you may believe you are beyond hope. But God’s forgiveness is so thorough that he sees you as perfect in his eyes. How is this possible?