The Bittersweet Feelings of Loss - Day 16
Experiencing and recovering from a deep loss brings mixed emotions. In this post we hear from the mother whose son is recovering from a brain tumor.
The Anger of Personal Tragedy - Day 15
This post continues the series looking at how to overcome a setback. Today we look at the anger that comes from experiencing a tragic event.
The Anger of Invalidation - Day 13
There are many experiences that can cause a setback in our lives (exile). One of them is being invalidated by people in power. This post looks at the anger produced in us from being invalidated.
Anger and Secondary Losses - Day 12
Many people get stuck in anger because they are unaware of the secondary losses associated with their anger. This post explores secondary losses.
Journaling and Healing: Day 11
Research has shown that journaling helps people to recover from loss and trauma. Is it possible that it might help you to heal as well?
The Emotions of Setback and Loss - Day Nine
A setback, coupled with loss, is what leads to exile. There are three main emotions associated with setback and loss. Don’t run from them. Embrace them to learn what God wants to show you about yourself.
Eight Setbacks That Lead To Exile - Day Eight
There are many types of setbacks and losses in life that can lead to a sense of exile. I list eight types in this post. What led to your exile?
Embracing Your Dark Side - Day 7
When we experience a setback (exile), rather than learn from it, we often run from it. But embracing the pain is the way through the pain to a place of transformation.
I Didn't See This Coming - Day Six
Life is filled with losses. These losses can send you into “exile,” a setback. And when you decide to follow God and his ways there may be more losses as you say good-bye to a former life.
Exile is Everywhere - Day Five
When you’ve suffered a severe setback in life (exile), it’s easy to feel alone, like this has never happened to anyone else. But the Bible shows that exile is more the norm than the exception.
Being Laid Bare - Day Four
If you’ve suffered a major setback and feel like you are wandering in a wilderness, that is an exile. It may seem like punishment or a waste of time, but God has a purpose for it.
Five Types of Exile - Day Three
There are various reasons why a person will end up in exile (a setback). It might be their fault, but not necessarily. This post looks at five reasons you might be in exile.
Five Emotions of Exile - Day Two
When you’ve experienced a devastating setback (exile) it fills you with a variety of emotions, from depression to disillusionment. In this post I share five emotions of my exiles.
How Did I Get Here? - Day One
There are many reasons for winding up in exile: divorce, betrayal, financial loss, etc. In this post I mention five ways I ended up in exile, mostly due to bad church experiences.
Five Ways to Face the Fear of Change
Everyone faces change. We often resist it our of fear. But some change is inevitable. Here are five ways to process the change that comes your way.
Anger and the Making of a Hard Heart
How do you express your anger? Do you blow up or clam up? This post takes a look at the impact of not dealing with your anger and what to do about it.
Fear of the Worst-Case Scenario
When bad things happen, our mind often jumps to the worst-case scenario. But fear can undermine us. In this post, I look at a famous Bible story that offers six ways to confront a threat without fear.
Finding Your Significance in God's Love
There is an answer to our fears of feeling insignificant, and it comes from knowing and resting in the profound, unwavering love of God. Discover more about why that truth matters and how it changes us in this helpful post.
Facing the Fear of Insignificance
One of our biggest fears is that of being insignificant. We don’t matter. And this fear causes us to become our worst enemy. How do we overcome the fear of insignificance? Here are some relevant answers from author, Max Lucado.
Setting Boundaries in Seven Steps
Setting boundaries is not meant to punish. But consequences are necessary to gain the space and respect you desire. Here are seven steps to creating boundaries in a relationship.