Sometimes people use boundaries incorrectly. They use them to punish people. But boundaries, used correctly, can help you to keep unhealthy people at a safe distance in your relationships.

Do people take advantage of you? Do you feel guilty saying, “no.” Here are three questions you can ask to help you decide if you should say “yes” or not. Part Three in a series on setting boundaries in your relationships.

Deciding how to set healthy boundaries in a relationship can be diffiicult. This post offers the first of a series of questions to help you in the decision making process of setting boundaries.