Recovering From a Crash and Burn Experience

Recovering From a Crash and burn experience

This is the final post in a series about how to recover from a crash and burn experience where your life imploded or exploded and came to a grinding halt.

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Recovery From a Crash and burn experience

The crash and burn series is based on the story in the Bible when the nation of Israel chose to walk away from God. Then the Babylonians took them into exile for 70 years. Ancient history? Yes. But maybe you’ve walked away from God and suffered the consequences as well.

You might see the years in exile as wasted. But God doesn’t waste anything. Every moment God can use to prepare his people for a comeback.

Following are my last two lessons on exile.

hope for a better future

People often think that exile is a time of despair rather than a time of hope. But that’s not true. Exile is when God speaks to you about your future. He speaks to you with words of hope. You just need to have ears to hear him.

If you are in exile today because of some kind of crash and burn, God wants to encourage you about your future. This is what God spoke through the prophet Jeremiah to his people in exile in Babylon, far from home…

I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.  Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.  I will be found by you," declares the LORD, "and will bring you back from captivity. I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you," declares the LORD, "and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile." Jeremiah 29:11-14

I bolded the phrase “bring you back”...very important words if you are in exile.

Exile isn’t forever.

Remember, God isn’t trying to punish you. He’s preparing you for the next phase of your life.  

Exile puts you on the sidelines. A time will come for you to reenter the game.

a new sense of identity and purpose.

God’s people had lost their sense identity. God called them to be a blessing but they forgot that. They became  self-serving.

But exile gave them a chance to reclaim their identity and purpose in life.

Exile does that. Exile is a time to reflect on what is important and restructure your life around serving God and others first.

It was in exile that Jews found a new urgency to study the Word of God. It was in exile that the Jewish synagogue took shape.

As Jews studied the Bible they came to realize that they were God’s chosen people, his treasured possession and they were called to be a blessing to the world.

It was in exile that the Jews decided they didn’t want to lose their way again. They wanted to make sure that if God ever gave them a second chance they’d be ready to fulfill their calling and not squander it.

Exile prepared them for a comeback. And God did bring them back to their land to start over.

Are you ready to make a comeback?

So, where are you in all of this? I hope my words help you to see the value of exile no matter how bad the crash and burn experience was.  Don’t run from it. Embrace it and let God do his work in you. Let the full work be done in you so you can be resurrected to a new life.

Prayer: Father, you know how important seasons of exile are. Help my reader to see what you see. Help them to not run from times of exile but turn and embrace them so they can experience the resurrection they need to reclaim their lives.

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F. Remy Diederich

I’ve authored six books related to overcoming life’s challenges with God’s help. I specialize in helping people to overcome spiritually abusive experiences as well as helping churches to develop healthy church cultures.

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