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      <image:caption>…abundance, not scarcity</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>They are not in control.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It’s all about perspective.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Listening Prayer - Day 29 - Listening Prayer</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Perfection: the Enemy of the Good (Richard Rohr) - Day 24 - Perfection: The Enemy of the Good</image:title>
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      <image:caption>click here to learn more…</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Two Halves of Life (Richard Rohr) - Day 23 - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>click here to learn more…</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Day 22… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Day 21… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Finding God's Comfort in Exile - Day 20 - Finding God’s Comfort in Exile</image:title>
      <image:caption>Day 20… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Day 17… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Day 16… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Day Nine… from setback to comeback</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Eight Setbacks That Lead To Exile - Day Eight - Eight Setbacks That Lead To Exile</image:title>
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      <image:caption>pastors</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - I Didn't See This Coming - Day Six - I Didn’t See This Coming</image:title>
      <image:caption>pastors</image:caption>
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