Peacemaking and Polarization: Moving to the Messy Middle
The polarization in our country is reaching a fevor pitch. But sadly, this division has spilled into the church. Is there a way for us to find middle ground or is it lost forever? What does it look like to be a peacemaker in a divisive world?
Set Boundaries To Stop Being Offended
Are you easily offended? We live in an age of outrage. But is that the person you want to be? This is the third post in a three part series on setting boundaries in your life.
Why Am I So Easily Offended? Wisdom from Henri Nouwen
Some people are easily offended. Maybe that’s you. Henri Nouwen speaks to this condition and points to a better way.
I'm SO Offended! Are You?
Outrage and offenses seem to be embedded into our culture today. But could our ease of being offended be more about us than our offender? Learn how shame plays a role in being offended and what you can do about it.
Agnosticism, Susan Cain, and Bittersweet
Susan Cain’s new book, Bittersweet, looks at the longing that we have in moments of beauty and even sadness. C.S. Lewis said this longing points us to God but Susan isn’t so sure. This post reflects on agnosticism and the love of not knowing.
Complexity Requires Empathy
In our ever evolving culture the issues we face are becoming more and more complex. With that complexity has come a deepening polarization. How do we keep from destroying our relationships? Empathy can go a long way in dialing down the rhetoric.
Victim Mentality: Who or What is Controlling You?
A victim mentality is when you feel helpless to make changes because you feel stuck in your situation. But you might not be as stuck as you think you are.
Should A Wife Submit to Her Husband?
Should a wife submit to her husband? The Bible says so, but some people weaponize the Bible against women. So, how do we make sense of the Bible? Maybe we are asking the wrong question.
Church Culture: How to Create A Culture That Attracts People
How do you create a culture that genuinely attracts people to your church community? This post delves into the essential elements—the “secret sauce”—that encourages individuals not only to visit but also to feel welcomed and motivated to return regularly.
Responsible People Need Permission to Rest
Responsible people are high achievers. They can move mountains. But they need to give themselves permission to rest in God’s love and acceptance.
Vulnerability - What is Behind Your Door?
Doors protect us from feeling vulnerable. But they also can keep people from experiencing all that we have to offer. A little insight from my recent travels to Mexico City.
Why I Don't Tell The Resurrection Story on Easter
I have rarely told the story of Jesus’ resurrection on Easter. That confuses some but it’s very intentional on my part. The resurrection of Jesus isn’t meant to be a nice story. It’s meant to change your life.
Theology of Suffering: finding a healthy view of God and suffering
We need a theology of suffering, that is, a view of God and suffering. Our misundertanding of God and suffering leads us to unhealthy places. But Jesus’ ministry helps us understand God’s view of suffering.
God's Love: Your Baseline Identity
Too often we left our emotions or the words of others define our value. But God’s love for us should be what determines our value in this world.
Caring vs. Curing, Henri Nouwen Reflection
Our tendency is to fix, to cure, to solve. But often our first step should be to care. This is my reflection on a quote by Henry Nouwen on caring vs. caring.
Welcome to the NEW readingremy.com
This is my first post from the relaunch of my website! Thanks for being a part of my new journey!
Retirement or Re-tire-ment?
Too many people retire, only to lose focus and a sense of purpose. Maybe retirement should be a time to reset, or re-tire your life for a new venture.
Tailwinds and Headwinds
Tailwinds and Headwinds: we know all about headwinds. But tailwinds often go unnoticed. Can we learn to be thankful?
Deconstructing Faith
Deconstructing faith. It seems to be what people are doing a lot these days. Is it wrong? Is it dangerous?